real quick question... I started loading today, and did my first HCG this am. I planned it so that I could enjoy my birthday tomorrow and NOT feel guilty! I just found out that my coworker is bringing my a cake she made to work on Monday. That was supposed to be my 1st VLCD day. I've seen that some women who have their TOM are allowed to load for 3 days. I don't want to be rude at work, so would it be a crime to Load for 2 1/2 days? Basically eat my slice of cake in the morning & then start up on VLCD at lunch? Or should I load the whole 3rd day? I already feel guilty!!!