Boy they sure do act weird! lol! I am never seem him stressed the way he is now. I also think he has a HUGE guilt factor because when we moved here it was for a far better opportunity then in MT. He started work in August and I stayed in MT to pack the house and get rid of stuff and what not. Then he came back in October and I had everything ready and we loaded the uhaul and then moved. (So I was alone doing it all with 4 kids and one was a 1 year old) Then we have a TON of issues with the house. Seth (my husband) never did any follow ups to make sure it was ready, he really badly dropped the ball on that. Then after staying a extra 3 days in a motel with 4 kids, 2 dogs, 2 cats we get into the house and it was flithly, beyond filthly, horrible. He had to go back to work so I was stuck cleaning it all (ohh and our a/c didn't work and it was that week in October where it was 110 and we just came from 50 degree weather so hot doesn't even describe it) So we get through that and then move in October 20th. November 6th, my mom is diagnosed with stage 2 pancreatic cancer. Get through the holidays being away from family and friends and no snow and it was so rough on me emotionally, not being with my mom not knowing if this was her last Christmas. Feb 1st comes, my husband gets laid off. We have enough in savings to last 4 months (We spent the rest on our move from MT, our portion was roughly about 15k). Then the end of Feb my mom has to go in for a whipple (it's major surgery) I go back to MT and she almost doesn't make it. They told us to prepare for "the call". Of course they put it in better terms. She makes it through that, I come back home. I get a job working 60 hours a week making jack and that killed my husband, he hates the idea of me working. Plus I am not too happy about any of this, I didn't want or ask (not saying he did but he was the one who got laid off, not me (yes, I know that sounds cold but with everything I had gone through in last couple months, cold it all I felt) so he gets a job and here we are today! So it's been a rough patch, and I know he feels huge guilt for everything that went on.
Ok, that was so long winded, and a ton of personal info but ohh well. It is what is!
Wow, that is a lot to go through let alone in such a short time. I'm surprised you didn't just flip out and start running down the street naked pulling your hair out.